Hug A Brat Today

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I never realized how much of a loss I would feel when my son moved out. I’ll admit it took five years to feel it, but it’s happened.

I’m grieving the loss of my kid’s childhood. It’s as painful as any grief I have ever felt. I see women, some my age, with young kids and I’m filled with a terrible melancholy. I feel like it was over in a day, I brought them home from the hospital and the next day they were twenty years old.

I feel like I have forgotten how tiny their little fingers and toes were.

I feel like I’ve forgotten their first step and their first word.

I feel like I have forgotten their first day of school, their first karate lesson.

I feel like I’ve forgotten their first date, first fight, first time they got drunk.

I grieve for the time that’s now gone because I don’t remember and didn’t cherish every minute.

I don’t remember the moment that I was handed my first child. I don’t remember looking into his amazingly vivid purple eyes and feeling my heart explode with love. Nope.

I didn’t cherish the years we spent walking the town, going to the lake and parks. I didn’t cherish walking around eating a baguette. I didn’t cherish finding acorns and maple keys. Nope.

I don’t remember. I didn’t cherish. Some days that is how I feel, but yes I do remember, and yes, you’re damn right I cherished.

My kids are my greatest accomplishments. They did as they should have, they grew up and moved away. If you do a good job, your sweet babies will do the same. Hug the little brats for me, will ya?

Here is a hug to those that are tired and hate me.🙂

 

 

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141 comments on “Hug A Brat Today

  1. Amber Harrop says:

    Mine are at that age – one is 21 and one is 16 and both can be brats but I know it is not long until they are gone for good so I will hug them even if they think it is uncool !!

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  2. Tyane Milem says:

    Love this!! My two youngest are brats, but I still enjoy every bit of it. I know that time goes way too fast!

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  3. diynige says:

    A lovely beautiful post I always hug all my children very important Thanks for linking to the #THAT FRIDAY LINKY come back next week please

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  4. Aw hun, such a heartfelt post. My twins are four, almost five, and these past four years have flown by. Thanks for joining #ThatFridayLinky

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  5. Ryan Bickham says:

    I have two boys 2 and 4 and already I see them growing up and realise they will need me less and less; the time flies by too fast. #ThatFridayLinky

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  6. Jen says:

    I am so tired, but I know how fast it goes. My oldest is 15 and my youngest is 3. The years from 3 to 15 go faster than you can imagine. Even on those days when you are so dog eared tired.

    Lovely post. Thanks for sharing at the #happynowlinkup

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  7. I love this post. I really try to hug my little three year old brat as much as I can even though she drives me bonkers because I know that time when she is flocking the house will come around before I know it. Great to have you linking up to #coolmumclub! X

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