If you shower and shave, then sit meditating and relaxing, you may not be marriage material.
In my case, the guy is lucky if I get up and answer the door.
Breaking the cycle is hard.
I can make the cookies, but I won’t want to share them. I can make the great dinner, but it sounds like too much work. And truly, if you’re expecting me to clean my house just because you’re showing up, you’re going to be disappointed. I’m not marriage material.
I could try and change.
I likely won’t.
Are you marriage material?